Getting your ex back has become the foremost objective of your life since your ex gave you the biggest shock of your life by announcing the break up. Now, there are different ways of reacting to this situation. And unless you adopt an approach that betrays your ex's thoughts about you, you will not succeed.
For instance, your ex on top being upset with you expects you to call him/her and implore for a second chance. Surprisingly enough, most people make such disastrous phone calls and end up losing their ex. If you don't want to follow their footsteps then do not make any attempt to convince your ex by begging or pleading your ex to return.
The fact is that you've been obsessed by the break up for the past many days, so now you need a break to relax and seek new opportunities in life. Have you been ignoring friends and neglecting your job duties? Well, it seems that now you have the perfect opportunity to make good your mistakes. Life is all about happiness and you have to find new sources of happiness as your ex is no longer around you.
Shortly, your ex will start feeling as if he/she has been left out in the cold and your ex will start entertaining ideas about checking up on you just to see how you're doing after the break up. All the hard work that you will put in will start showing results from now on as news about your revival in life will get to your ex.
The key to getting your ex back is to remain unpredictable and excel in your life on your own. If you're able to pull this off, your ex will start respecting you and shortly rejoin you in this journey we call life.
